Monday, July 31, 2017

Food for Thought this Tisha B'Av (Since You Can't Eat)


A few years ago, my son asked: Why do we fast on Tisha B’Av?  He knew the answer is to commemorate the destruction on the Beit HaMikdash.  What he was really asking was, “What is the relevance of Tisha B’Av for us today?”

Tisha B’Av was established because of the tragedies and difficulties of the past.  But what about the present?  We have Israel.  Things are far from perfect everywhere, but Jews have it better today than any time since the Temple stood.

So, why DO we fast and recount the tragedies of the past and sit low to the ground?  How does Tisha B’Av relate to us?

Our Sages were aware of this issue. Here are three statements of the Sages in which they teach how the Temple’s destruction may be relevant for all time.

1)  The Talmud in Berachot 32b states in the name of Rabbi Elazar:

מיום שחרב בית המקדש נפסקה חומת ברזל בין ישראל לאביהם שבשמים

From the day that the Temple was destroyed, a wall of iron has separated Israel from their Father in Heaven

The Temple was an inspiring location, one in which daily miracles occurred.  When the Beit HaMikdash stood, if you ever questioned the existence of God or God’s role in your life, you could go to Jerusalem and feel God’s presence.  That was one of the purposes of the three pilgrimage festivals on which everyone would go to Jerusalem: to recharge the spiritual batteries.

What about today?  Where should we go when we have religious questions or feelings of doubt? 

On Tisha B’Av, we need to come to terms with a more challenging religious environment.    

2)  The Talmud in Sota 48a states:
מיום שחרב בהמ”ק – אין יום שאין בו קללה           

From the day that the Temple was destroyed, not a day goes by without some sort of curse.

There is pain in the world: the pain of those who are ill, isolated or marginalized.  There is the k’lalah of rising anti-Semitism around the globe and uncertainty that many Jews endure.  There is the continuing danger to Israel from all kinds of threats.  There is insecurity here in America: violence, inequality, a loss of morality, and a sense of being adrift. 

On Tisha B’Av, we have the opportunity – the responsibility – to confront that pain and resolve to address it the best we can.

3)  The Midrash states:
מיום שחרב בהמ”ק נתמעט השלום

Since the day that the Temple was destroyed, peace has been diminished

The modern Jewish community is noteworthy as much for our dwindling affiliation rates as we are for our divisiveness, strife and discord amongst the Tribe.  I don’t think I need to (or want to) list the ways in which our community disagrees.  It is so unfortunate that it takes a mortal threat for Jews to put aside our differences.

On Tisha B’Av, we are reminded just how divided and fragmented we can be.

Tisha B’Av has always been about much more than the Temple.  From the time of the Temple’s destruction, we have faced the complexity of religious experience, the curses, and the loss of peace.

If we have difficulty mourning the historical tragedies, their reverberations provide plenty upon which to reflect and be sad on Tisha B’Av.

There is another event that took place on Tisha B’Av.  According to the Sages (Midrash Eicha Rabba 1:51), Mashiach was born on Tisha B’Av.

What does this mean?  It is not an historical event or an aspiration.  The intent is that every year, Tisha B’Av generates a new impetus for redemptive action.  In addition to mourning that which has been destroyed, Tisha B’Av is a time to rebuild.

May this Tisha B’Av usher in different types of building:
A building of our spirituality and connection to God
A building of peace: within our families, our community, and the world
A building of lives committed to mindfulness, emotion, and responsiveness

This kind of Tisha B’Av observance will bring each of us that much closer to redemption. 

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